Sunday, July 26, 2009

The Strategic Management of Love-Lesson 2: The Art of Negotiation

If one has to negotiate in a relationship, follow the golden rules :)

1) Always play the reluctant lover
2) Dont open up with all ur thoughts, i.e., dont place all ur cards on the table, keep the other person guessing
3) Be emotionally detatched, rather, dont get emotionally invloved
4) Do not feel the need for the other person---a want can be compromised, not a want/desire
5) Dont act desperate
6) Dont act too interested

Negotiation is an art, it has to be developed. And one can become good at it only with practice. So, all u people out there, practice this with as many :) to master this art.

3 comments:

Maddening Silences said...

This makes so much sense :)and I completely agree with you.. the question is how far we succeed in each of these negotiations...

mavi said...

In this current world, where many relate more to the disguised feelings rather than the true self, I really believe one can succeed well in the long run, provided that at least one in the relationship is effected positively by these strategies and revels in the false notion of a conquest and a difficult deal made.

Anonymous said...

Win Ex lover back in 48 hours__________________


100% result guaranteed..


Email….R.buckler11 [[ gmail….com ]]


United States…